Equestrian sports are unique in that they require not one, but two athletes to align perfectly to clinch the competition: the rider and the horse. However, behind every successful young equestrian, there’s an unsung hero who deserves a standing ovation – the horse show mom or dad.

A Day in the Life of a Horse Show Parent

Being a horse show parent is no easy feat. It involves far more than just cheering from the sidelines. It takes dedication, patience, and a whole lot of love. From managing early morning wake-up calls and late-night rides back home, to ensuring their young riders are well-fed and rested, horse show parents are the backbone of their child’s equestrian journey.

Juggling Responsibilities

Ensuring your child is ready for the competition is a job in itself. It involves making sure they have all their riding gear, outfits, and equipment in check. Plus, there’s the task of getting them to all their riding lessons on time. But it’s not just about logistics. Horse show parents often act as emotional support, During competitions, tensions can run high. If your child is feeling disappointed or upset, it’s important to be there for them and help them work through their emotions. Listening to their concerns, offering words of encouragement, and being a shoulder to lean on can go a long way in lifting your child’s spirits. 

Managing Your Child’s Expectations

While your child may have lofty goals and aspirations for their equestrian journey, it’s important to manage their expectations and ensure they understand the reality of the sport. Talk to them about the challenges they may face, both physical and emotional, and help them understand that every ride won’t be perfect, every judge’s opinion will not be the same. Remind them that progress takes time, and that their hard work and dedication will pay off in the long run.

On the Road

For some, being a horse show parent means traveling all over the country. It involves long drives, flights, and countless hours spent in unfamiliar towns and cities. Yet, they do it willingly, knowing that it provides their child the opportunity to compete at the highest levels and gain invaluable experience.

Financial Commitment

While trainers take on the role of caring for and training the horses, the financial responsibility falls on the parents. From entry fees and trainer costs to travel expenses and gear, financing an equestrian career can be a significant investment.

Cheers to Horse Show Parents

At the end of the day, being a horse show mom or dad is about more than just responsibilities and jobs. It’s about supporting your child in pursuing their passion. It’s about being there for them through every high and low, every win and loss.

So here’s to all the horse show moms and dads out there – for your unwavering support, your tireless efforts, and your undying love for your young equestrians. Your role may be behind the scenes, but your impact is front and center. Thank you for all that you do!